Every day I hear from men and women who have tried everything under the sun to save their marriage. They’ve tried ebooks and courses, counseling and seminars. They’ve taken the Love Dare, made desperate attempts to be nice to their spouse, but in the end they’re still met with the same constant rejection (if not even MORE rejection from their spouse) than when they started. So what’s the problem? WHY isn’t this stuff working? Well here’s the answer… If your spouse has already filed or is threatening…
Lillie’s Question for Marsha… “I need help. I recently discovered that my husband is on several online dating sites. He also lies all the time. When I confronted him with the evidence he still lied. He know says that of course he lied when first confronted about it and that he is very sorry he did any of this and that there is no excuse and that it is unforgivable. He also claims he wasn’t trying to hook up with anyone. However, his profiles on the sites state he was indeed trying to hook up with…
Kris’s Question for Larry… “My husband has already moved out and wants a divorce. His parents have been married for over 50 years and I am my husbands 4th marriage. So I am wondering about the first 10 years of his life. If his parents are still married, why does he have such an issue? He had a good childhood too, so I don’t understand. My parents are still married too and my childhood wasn’t bad either. My dad was really strict, but that’s about it. Thank you.” Larry’s Answer for Kris, Hi Kris, …
Tiffani’s Question For Larry… “My boyfriend and I have been together for five years now and for five years he has wanted to get married to me, but I have a fear of marriage and especially divorce. I feel that after two kids and one on the way that I am finally ready to get married to him, but I also feel if I don’t just do it now then I probably never will. Am I ready to get married?” - Tiffani Larry’s Answer for Tiffani… Tiffani, Of course…
When a mother-in-law overwhelmingly dominates or controls your spouse, but your spouse doesn’t (or refuses) to see it, it’s only a matter of time until you reach your breaking point. Recently, I received an email from a woman (we’ll call her Jan) whose mother-in-law was trying to get closer to her former black sheep son by being needy and requesting money, food and her son’s time for “emergencies”. The way she got his attention was by making him feel valuable by being dependent on him - in this case, dependent financially. This was causing…
Saving a marriage after an affair can really be hard. It is definitely something that cannot be solved immediately. When you are already married and you had an affair with someone else, it is considered to be something serious. But if you had an affair because you were just tempted and you did not planned it to happen, your marriage can still be saved. Giving a second chance to a person that has accepted his mistake and promises with all his heart not to do it again is just right. Besides, everybody deserves to be given a second chance, even if he had an affair.
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If I were a time traveler and had the opportunity to go either forward or backward in time, I would definitely choose to go forward. As nice as it would be to see all my deceased loved ones again, and meet relatives who died before I was born, I am too intrigued by the idea of what the future holds. I would visit my future relatives, experience the new technologies available, and see if anything I did in my own time had a significant effect on the future world. I would also, depending on how far into the future I went, seek out anyone from my own time who might still be living.
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Kat’s Question For Larry… Hi Larry, I can’t say my marriage of 32 yrs was ever really good. My husband, I just learned from your site, is a chaos kid. There was one affair while we were engaged, I found out about when I was pregnant with our 1st child. There are at least 3 others since. The last was over the top. I started as an emotional affair 5 1/2 yrs ago. Then went to infidelity. But the 2 of them got our families together 31/2 yrs ago. I…
Over the years, I’ve received a lot of questions about how to act around a spouse going through a midlife crisis. Should you ask questions about what he or she is going through? Should you talk to your spouse about getting some help? Should you avoid your spouse completely? Here is best way to deal with a spouse going through a mid life crisis… When living with a spouse in midlife crisis, and you are in the same house, your job is to look like you…
When married couples thinks that their marriage is in danger and they need a little help, one of the options that they can take a look into is to seek some advice from a marriage expert. From the name itself, this person knows a lot about marriage and how to go about dealing with the problems associated to it. So, married couples can really expect something from him/ her that will somehow make things less complicated and even solve their problems. This is definitely an option that married couples should take into consideration rather than immediately jumping into filing for a divorce.
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